Ways to make our cats feel loved

Cats have a reputation for being aloof and independent. But even if they don’t always show it, most cats actually crave attention and love. When we show our cats affection, it helps them to feel secure, happy, and safe.

This article will give you some tips on how to make your cat feel loved.

Why do we love pets?

It is human nature for us to love our pets. Pets offer us unconditional love, companionship, affection, entertainment, and joy. Petting them releases hormones that make us feel love and happiness. Pets provide us with comfort when we are feeling down. While we love our pets for all of these reasons, we might wonder what the best ways are to show them how we feel.


Cats love affection but on their own terms

While it might be tempting to smother your cat with hugs and kisses, most cats prefer more subtle expressions of love. For example, accepting cats’ affectionate gestures and knowing how to reciprocate are great ways to show them you love them. If your cat bumps her head into you, a behavior called bunting, it means she is marking you with her scent and claiming you as her own. You can show your acceptance by letting her rub her head or cheek on your hand.


Ways to make our cats feel loved

In order to make our cats feel loved, we should recognize that each cat has her own individual preferences. Some cats are very shy and reserved around people while others can’t seem to get enough love and attention. It is important to heed their signals to know what types of attention they prefer and what they dislike.

1. Petting

Petting your cat is a great way to show your affection for her. Most cats love it, although there are some that don’t. Even cats that usually like being pet are not always in the mood for it. When cats purr, it is a good sign that they are enjoying the attention.

2. Brushing and grooming

Cats are usually good at cleaning and grooming themselves, but giving them a hand will help them keep their fur smooth and shiny. Regular brushing creates a great opportunity for bonding and sharing an affectionate moment. It also benefits cats by preventing knots and hairballs.

3. Playing

Playing with your cat on a regular basis is another great way to show your love. It also helps keep her healthy, active, and fit. Cats love chasing toys, laser pointers, climbing, jumping, and scratching. Providing them with toys, perches, scratching posts, and hiding places will keep them entertained and prevent boredom from setting in.

What about shy cats?

If your cat is shy and reluctant to interact, you might need work on building trust. To show affection for a shy cat, start by getting down on her level. This will help her feel less intimidated. Next, let her sniff your hand before you try to pet her. Getting her used to your scent will help her become more trustful.

4. Show your love through care

Another great way to a cat’s heart is through her stomach. Cats know you love them when you take good care of them and attend to their daily needs. Providing them with nutritious meals, fresh water, and occasional treats will help them feel secure and loved.

Other things that cats require are comfortable places to sleep, a clean litter box, and regular veterinary care. By attending to all of their needs, you show them your love and appreciation. You will be rewarded with cats' unconditional love and affection.


Final thoughts:

Making your cat feel loved is not hard to do. As long as you are sensitive to her needs, moods, and preferences, your kitty will be happy to receive your love and will give you plenty of purrs in return.